Humility: The Antidote To The Addiction Of Honor
Rev. Marcel Divine Emeka Okwara, CSsR
Homily for the Twenty-Second Sunday in Ordinary Time, Year C
Church of St. Bridget of Minneapolis, MN
Sunday, August 31, 2025
The central message of the Bible is that there is only one true good: God alone. During his public ministry, Jesus highlighted this truth when he said: “You shall worship the Lord your God, and him alone shall you serve” (Luke 4:8). I tell you, this command to worship and serve the one true God is at the heart of the Christian faith. It means that God alone should be the focus of our lives. It also means that anything that distracts us from God becomes an idol or false god. Therefore, making those things the focus of our lives is to commit idolatry and false worship.
Sadly, some people are obsessed with money. To acquire it, they will do almost anything, break any law, and hurt anyone to get it. Why? Because they have made money (wealth) their god and the center of their lives. Others love power. To gain and keep it, they will do almost anything—break any law, hurt anyone—because they have made power their god and obsession. We also have people who love pleasure—the pleasure of the body. To seek it in its many forms, they will do almost anything, break any law, hurt anyone. Why? Because they have made pleasure, one of the false options to the true Good, their god and focus. However, some people care less about money and wealth. They care less about power. Power isn’t their thing. They also care less about pleasure. In fact, they are willing to give up all kinds of pleasure. But what they want, what they crave, is honor. They want to be admired. They want all the attention, everyone looking at them and praising them. They want to be in the spotlight. For many, this is their drug and intoxicating cocktail. For the sake of honor, they are willing to break any law and harm anyone to stay in the spotlight. They have made honor or fame their god. You see these people everywhere. Look at politicians. Of great importance to them and other famous people is the hunger for fame and glory. Like wealth, power, and pleasure, honor is also a false god. But it is not the ultimate good.
But the truth is that those who crave honor are rarely truly free. Why is that? You might be doing your best and achieving great things, but if the crowd doesn’t like you, you won’t find happiness. On the other hand, you can do the worst things—things that harm yourself and others—and if the crowd likes you, you’re okay. Is the crowd really good at honoring the right people? Sometimes they do, like with Mother Teresa of Calcutta. In her case, the crowd showed good judgment. But most of the time, those who are honored and admired are often the worst kind of people. Truly good, righteous, and loving individuals are often overlooked by the crowd. So, when you rely on the admiration of the crowd, you dismiss genuine goodness. And you put your life in the hands of very questionable people. According to St. Thomas Aquinas, honor itself doesn’t add anything to your life. When you are honored and admired, does it increase your true worth? Does it improve your goodness, truthfulness, righteousness, or integrity? Of course not! It adds nothing. Honor is just a sign—it points to something worth noticing. That’s why the Church honors saints. It points to them and encourages us to admire them because they embody qualities worth emulating. But in itself, honor, admiration, and glory don’t add anything real to you. Imagine this: if you are quietly doing one of the corporal works of mercy, like picking up trash around the church, tidying up the restroom someone else messed up, helping set up or take down tables and chairs at our events, and no one sees or praises you, that gives you more blessings than the cheers of a million people. Honor doesn’t add anything substantial to your real life. There’s greater value in simply saying hello to a visitor than in the applause of an audience. And if the whole world knows about you and admires you, so what?
What’s the antidote to this false god? What do we do if we are addicted to honor, fame, and admiration? Today’s readings tell us what to do. The first reading from the Book of Sirach says, “Conduct your affairs with humility…” The watchword is humility. When St. Augustine was asked to name the three most essential things in spiritual life, he said the first is humility, the second is humility, and the third is humility. To be humble is to be in touch with reality. What’s that reality? That you are not God, but a mere mortal. At a passing glance, humility seems to be a weakness. But in reality, it is a strength. It is a strength to know you are not God, and it is a weakness to pretend to be God. Sirach reminds us that the greater we are, the more humility we need. The wiser we become, the more we need to listen to others. If your temptation is to be great in the eyes of the world, bend the stick back the other way. The more you are honored, the more humble you should become.
In today’s Gospel (Luke 14:1, 7-14), Jesus urges us not to take the place of honor when we are invited to a wedding or a feast, for if someone greater arrives, the host might ask us to vacate our position for them. When you are invited, you should sit in the lowest place. People who are passionate about honor will undoubtedly strive for the highest positions of honor. In the workplace, they will hijack the highest positions. Why? To be noticed and admired by others. If honor is your problem and temptation, do the opposite. Bend the stick the other way. Move in the opposite direction. Strive instead not to be noticed. I know doing this is not easy, especially if you are addicted to honor. But you must strive to wrestle your soul from this addiction. Without humility, it is impossible to please God.
God bless you!